Lately, she has been acting strange and you are not getting used to it. So sad to say that when your girl cheats it can ruin your good relationship. Clues are given below to help one figure out if she is cheating or not.
You know when you are in a mess when she…
Sign # 1
Has a mysterious friend
Hesitant to share her “new found friend” and if got caught she either tells that he is a gay or has a fiancée/ girlfriend. Although girls are allowed to have guy friend/s but when she spends more time with her boy friend than you, then it’s another story.
Sign #2
Is always busy as a bee
Every time you plan for a romantic dinner or have some fun over the weekend, more often than not she gave a negative response. It is quite odd if she suddenly morphs from a freewheeling person to an occupied career-minded lady.
Sign #3
Suddenly stops your communication
It is getting worst and harder in your part to communicate with her. And when she drops a line either by phone or email she gets defensive with her answers and gives tons of reasons.
Sign #4
Is Less Affectionate
Reacts coldly when you express your love to her. You rarely (or worse none) receive a response when you say the three magical words—I Love You.
Sign #5
Detaches herself from your close friends or families
A cheating girlfriend likely feels guilty with her infidelity towards you. Little by little, she no longer attends family gatherings and lessens bonding moments to the people who are dear to you. The lesser she immerses herself from them, the lesser remorse she will have to endure.
Sign #6
Nags without definite cause
This is done to cover-up the guilt she bears. Always point out your flaws and ask if you are being true to him. As they said, the one who nags is the one who does.
Sign #7
Has a sketchy schedule
Gone are the days when she shares all her incoming agenda or to-do lists. She becomes secretive about her timetable and you are the last person to know.
Sign #8
Uses a low tone of voice / hang up quickly over a phone conversation
Whenever she picks up the phone --you girl friend seems to answer in a whisper or quickly hang up the phone. So that you will not interrogate further if who’s calling.
Sign #9
Does not let you use her personal computer or cell phone.
She avoids lending you her PC or mobile phone because you might found something peculiar. If ever you borrow her cellphone she immediately erased all the stored messages, missed calls or received calls.
Sign #10
Has a definite change in her attitude
The changing of attitude is a sign that she falls out of love and uncomfortable being with you. She is no longer the girl that knocks off your feet.
How to Deal With It?
Cheating may be a part of human nature but it does not make right. It has scourged love lives for generations. Do not jump into conclusions or read her the wrong way as it might taint your relationship. Get all the facts or evidences before you confront her. If you sense that there is something wrong in her address the problem right away to fix your falling relationship. Do not let your doubts be a bad case of jealousy and say goodbye without exerting an effort to mend the problem.
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