Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Top 5 Reasons why Older Men Date Younger Women

Why do older men date younger women? This question had been around for some time now. Good thing, that civilization nowadays has learned to accept this idea. Before, if older men were seen dating younger women, they are dubbed as “sugar daddy” or “cradle snatcher”. Know the top five reasons why older men date younger women.

Reason #1

Younger women are more enthusiastic and fun. Older men love the energy that they show. It makes them more youthful and vigorous in life. With the adventurous activities that younger women share, they tend to enjoy life even better.

Reason#2

Younger women are passionate. With this characteristic, it simply draws attention to older men. Older men feel loved not just because of what they have but of what they are.

Reason#3

Younger women are independent. This attitude earns admiration to older men because some men want their girl to be independent. Someone who is not controlled by others in regards with their ambitions and goals in life.

Reason#4

Younger women do not itch for marriage. They do not insist to have a ring on their finger immediately and know when to wait. Most younger women enjoy life to the fullest before committing herself to marriage and this is what older men like.

Reason#5

Younger women can tend their needs. Be it physically, emotionally or morally. Younger women can look after their wants or needs when they live in the same roof. It is making them (older men) feel that they are taken care of; aside from the usual cliché of having younger women to be their caregiver.

Friday, May 9, 2008

Safety Online Dating Tips

Online dating leads us to the excitement and fun world of meeting the right one for us through the state-of-the-art technology of computer. It gives us tons of opportunities to meet different people from all walks of life. These people can be our friends, partners or destiny. However, due to its laidback environment it does not mean that you should let your guards down. You should be cautious and observant because you cannot keep an eye on the person’s reactions or looking into the eyes to determine emotions. With just a minor err of giving too much personal information to the stranger on the other end of the computer you might end up as a prey. To make your online dating safe and enjoyable, ten tips are listed below for an ultimate dating experience:

1. Never give personal information too soon.

-Guard your anonymity do not easily give your contact information e.g. telephone number, mailing address, name of the company you work and your personal email account. Chances are you will be an easy prey of getting scam.

  1. Be aware of married people in disguise.

-There are numerous cheaters and liars who are already committed through marital vows played their craft in the web. They pretend to be single to have a chance of ripping off other people’s pocket.

  1. Use only the communication tools provided by the dating site.

-So that you can eschew online dating modus operandi that may end up in boring a hole in your wallet.

  1. Believe in your gut feeling.

-If you sense that something is not right from the very beginning, then it would be better to cut off the conversation from the very start.

5. Take it slow

-Do not be pressured with the society’s thoughts of having you still single at the age of being a granny or a grandpa. It is better to take things slowly but surely because all you can get in hurry is trouble. The key in starting slow is to observe the inconsistencies of the other party, as this is the clue that he or she might not what he or she claims to be.

  1. Request for a recent photo (if he or she does not have one)

- There is nothing wrong in asking a photo but if one will refuse to give a photo and make lame excuses, then without a doubt stop your communication. The appearance of the person helps you determine whether the person is worthy to correspond to or not. In addition, if you have the photo be sure to confirm it whether its fake or real.

7. Know the person well

-Before you give your heart to someone, know your potential mate carefully--if you do not want to spend your precious time with Mr. or Ms. Wrong.

8. Use your common sense

-Well-thought decisions and approach to a stranger should be observed every now and then. Do not easily fall in love in just a few ticks of the mouse. Learn to weigh things when you choose the right one for you.

9. Watch out for Red Flags

-If you recognized that your ideal person is acting in unreceptive-hostile manner, making mortifying and insolent comments and foul behavior, stay away as this is a sign of red flags. Red flags are warning signals or something incite an annoyed action.

10. Meet when you are ready

-Never decide to meet the person if you are uncomfortable and unready. If you think he or she is the one and agreed to see him or her, meet in a safe and public environment.

These are just tips to guide you as you enter the exciting world of online dating. Do not let these guidelines frighten you, there are many wonderful and affectionate people in online dating sites who are waiting for you. All you need is a little caution to reduce your risk of being an easy prey and heart problems.

Best of luck in your search for true love!

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Cheating Girlfriend: 10 Signs to Know

Lately, she has been acting strange and you are not getting used to it. So sad to say that when your girl cheats it can ruin your good relationship. Clues are given below to help one figure out if she is cheating or not.

You know when you are in a mess when she…

Sign # 1

Has a mysterious friend

Hesitant to share her “new found friend” and if got caught she either tells that he is a gay or has a fiancĂ©e/ girlfriend. Although girls are allowed to have guy friend/s but when she spends more time with her boy friend than you, then it’s another story.

Sign #2

Is always busy as a bee

Every time you plan for a romantic dinner or have some fun over the weekend, more often than not she gave a negative response. It is quite odd if she suddenly morphs from a freewheeling person to an occupied career-minded lady.

Sign #3

Suddenly stops your communication

It is getting worst and harder in your part to communicate with her. And when she drops a line either by phone or email she gets defensive with her answers and gives tons of reasons.

Sign #4

Is Less Affectionate

Reacts coldly when you express your love to her. You rarely (or worse none) receive a response when you say the three magical words—I Love You.

Sign #5

Detaches herself from your close friends or families

A cheating girlfriend likely feels guilty with her infidelity towards you. Little by little, she no longer attends family gatherings and lessens bonding moments to the people who are dear to you. The lesser she immerses herself from them, the lesser remorse she will have to endure.

Sign #6

Nags without definite cause

This is done to cover-up the guilt she bears. Always point out your flaws and ask if you are being true to him. As they said, the one who nags is the one who does.

Sign #7

Has a sketchy schedule

Gone are the days when she shares all her incoming agenda or to-do lists. She becomes secretive about her timetable and you are the last person to know.

Sign #8

Uses a low tone of voice / hang up quickly over a phone conversation

Whenever she picks up the phone --you girl friend seems to answer in a whisper or quickly hang up the phone. So that you will not interrogate further if who’s calling.

Sign #9

Does not let you use her personal computer or cell phone.

She avoids lending you her PC or mobile phone because you might found something peculiar. If ever you borrow her cellphone she immediately erased all the stored messages, missed calls or received calls.

Sign #10

Has a definite change in her attitude

The changing of attitude is a sign that she falls out of love and uncomfortable being with you. She is no longer the girl that knocks off your feet.

How to Deal With It?

Cheating may be a part of human nature but it does not make right. It has scourged love lives for generations. Do not jump into conclusions or read her the wrong way as it might taint your relationship. Get all the facts or evidences before you confront her. If you sense that there is something wrong in her address the problem right away to fix your falling relationship. Do not let your doubts be a bad case of jealousy and say goodbye without exerting an effort to mend the problem.



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